Finding our Soulmate starts with finding the perfect love within ourselves first | Gay Hendricks
In this interview with Lilou Mace, Gay Hendricks says that we need to look for the perfect love within us and not outside. Finding someone starts with loving ourselves first! Gay Hendricks explains how he declared to hte Universe the unique qualities he was looking for within his soulmate: honesty, no blame/taking responsability and being commited to creativity. www.hendricks.com Gay Hendricks, Ph.D., has served for more than 35 years as one of the major contributors to the fields of relationship transformation and bodymind therapies. Along with his wife, Dr. Kathlyn Hendricks, Gay is the co-author of many bestsellers, including Conscious Loving, Spirit-Centered Relationships. He is he author of 32 books, including The Corporate Mystic, Conscious Living, Five Wishes and The Big Leap (April 2009). Dr. Hendricks received his Ph.D. in counseling psychology from Stanford in 1974. After a twenty-one-year career as a professor at University Colorado, he founded The Hendricks Institute, which offers seminars in North America, Asia and Europe. In recent years he has also been active in creating new forms of conscious entertainment. In 2003, along with movie producer Stephen Simon, Dr. Hendricks founded The Spiritual Cinema Circle, which distributes inspirational movies to subscribers in 70+ countries around the world, www.spiritualcinemacircle.com. He has appeared on more than 500 radio and television shows, including OPRAH, CNN, CNBC, 48 HOURS and others.

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Great question at (8:12): very thoughtful, Lilou. What a dear man, I feel I will meet him soon. I live here in southern California.
1This is so good, really profound! Thank you Lilou!
2Very insightful interview.
3wonderful! Thank you Mr. Hendricks for you wisdom!
4The timing on this is rather miraculous ..thankyou..!
5He is marvelously articulate about the most important thing – that until we love ourselves we’re not going to be able to have a meaningful loving relationship with anyone else. And when we do love ourselves, then more love comes into our lives…
6Great video Lilou!
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